A tactic that once worked to spark curiosity is now the default and has lost power with overuse. Instead of creating intrigue, it now feels like that sad, desperate moment when Meredith Grey stands in front of McDreamy and says the infamous line, “Pick me, choose me, love me.” with a painfully obvious bid for attention. And to add salt to the wound, the audience still doesn’t know you. Focusing on what you're not, tells people basically nothing about what you are.